3 WAYS I FOUND HAPPINESS WITHIN MYSELF

3 WAYS I FOUND HAPPINESS WITHIN MYSELF 

Sometimes we forget how to make ourselves happy and we often become so distracted with trying to "make it" that we lose ourselves in the process. I used to be the negative type person and thought I was charmed with bad luck but recently I've been doing things that makes me happy or rather happier and I wanted to share it with everyone...

Take up reading in your spare time

Yes, I read a lot of self motivational books because like I said I was really a negative person and I wanted to change and find a new meaning to life. Well to be honest I was looking for who I really was and how I could find peace. I started off by reading "The Secret" which basically states that having a positive mind is the major KEY to life, if you really want something in terms of career, relationships and general happiness. 

Apparently, celebrities have known this secret for centuries WHERE HAVE I BEEN, EH HELLO lol Now me too I know the secret and I have started to apply it to my life and I'm so much happier. I also read the book 'Feel the fear and do it anyway' it gave me such a great insight as to why I should really stop fearing the 'what if's' and start taking risks this is why today I am writing blog post and starting an online business.

Spend more time with people who inspire you and spend less time gossiping

THIS IS THE REALIST ADVICE I CAN GIVE TO Y'ALL, since I stopped hanging around people who want to gossip all the time I am able to focus on my goals and my dreams. I truly believe in the quote "show me your friends and I'll show you who you are" do not hang around people who want to gossip all the time.

I'm not saying I don't gossip I'm saying I have cut down dramatically on how much TIME I spend doing this and started filling my conversations with my friends with positivity and ideas. Gossiping takes SO much time and effort and in the same space you can achieve SO much. Surround yourself with individuals who are gonna motivate, elevate and push you towards your dreams. 

Being grateful for how far I have come

Sometimes I work so hard and I don't give myself enough credit, only because I feel like I should be doing more with my life. Especially when I see these young Instagram girls making moves I just think to myself "eish I'm not doing enough I need to do more to become successful" BUT I have come so far from where I used to be and I'm forever grateful for this. 

Thinking about it I am so proud of myself, In secondary school they told me I wasn't going to get GCSE's this year I am Graduating from University LOL. I'm very proud and you should be too, life isn't easy if your still alive and grinding everyday you should be proud.

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